Saturday, August 25, 2018

The Need for Showers - Our Role

Guys, we continue to receive comments about showers for youth, and I like the continued enthusiasm over the topic. Read 3 comments below.
Eric~

Reader #1
On Bath-tub Only Boys -

Everybody is probably tired of reading about the physical layout of showers instead of the educational value. A series of quick observations and then I'll jump back into my cage.

I am on the alumni council of the university I attended. I am familiar with older dorms and also get to tour new dorms (and other facilities) before the students ever move in. For buildings constructed before the late 1940's and continuing into the early 1960's, there were communal bathrooms on each wing of men's dorms. The typical layout was six sinks with mirrors, two urinals, three toilet stalls without doors and a shower area for four men at a time. There was no consideration of modesty.

Beginning in the mid and late 1960's doors were added to the stalls in old buildings, but it was not economically feasible to alter the shower areas. New construction provided individual shower stalls, but no private changing area.


From the 1970's to the 1990's each shower stall included a private changing cubicle.

And beginning in the 1990s (continuing today) dorms are designed as slick apartment buildings. Each unit includes its own private bathroom and enough personal space for the number of roommates living in that apartment.

Nobody wants to live in the oldest dorms until they have been totally reconstructed to provide a high level of privacy. Personally, I think something important has been lost, but we are living in the "Me" generation.

A Lurker


Reader #2
  Evaluation of the "Roaming Locker Room Coach" Poll
(Poll is no longer available to view)

Running before school, take a shower. Regular PE class 4th period, take a shower. Basketball practice after school, take a shower. Needless to say, I spent a lot of time naked in the school shower. The coaches passed through, but didnt linger. It never bothered me if they were in there.

I figured out I was gay in sixth grade and sometimes wished they would notice.

Anonymous







Reader#3
A Few Thoughts on Showers and Such 

  A Co-worker has a middle school son (7th grade), who is on the school Football team. We are in a US Southern state and so August afternoon workouts (after school) would melt these boy's stamina in probably 45 minutes or less. So the coach has called 6:30 AM work-outs and team practice. My friend's son is suited-out and gets dropped off by 6:30 and commits hard effort to the drills etc.. Even by 8:00 AM here the temps are approaching 90 degrees, so you can be sure these boys are sweaty, and smelly at the end of Football practice

My friend, said,  that after practice the boy tried to use the School showers. Like Dad he is a larger size fellow, and takes his personal hygiene seriously so as not to appear slovenly. So in the lockers rooms he is equipped with soap shampoo and his school clothes, only to find the place is a complete neglected wreck. Hardly any of the shower heads work, (the valves are likely calcium locked), and the walls and tiles are "gross looking" as the boys stated. Many of the team-mates also declared they wouldn't use those showers because it's nasty.

Apparently since the boys in regular P.E. classes ignore showers, and the coach has no  leverage to compel the boys to shower,  the whole event is bypassed. Obviously the end result is a shower room that falls to decay from lack of use, and even more-so lack of maintenance by custodial staff since there are no kids using the shower facility.

My friend's son has dedicated to maintain some form of cleanliness, so he carries wet-wipes to pat himself to a modest level of cleanliness before getting dressed for his day's classes.

It sure makes you wonder how did we get here, raising a generation or two of stinky swamp-ass kids?

Anonymous

4 comments:

  1. In seventh grade I attended a brand-new junior high school and remained there through eighth and ninth grades. The building was barely finished when we entered. Workers were still putting out blocks of grass our first week of classes. We kids were impressed with our good fortune. One thing we were particularly proud of was the Physical Education facilities. They included a nice big locker room and plenty of communal showers. Nobody else had yet used the showers, so hooray for us! I went home after the first day and was so happy that I described the lockers and showers to my family. Getting to change and shower proved that I was at a new level of maturity. As far as I know, not a single boy ever complained about peeling bare in front of everybody else. Stripping and showering were a normal part of our life. When did we become sissies?

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  2. when i was in grade school and high school. the locker room had lockers line up on each wall.
    we all sat on benches in the middle of the room were we stripped naked. we all went into the shower room together and took our shower together. the one thing the teacher always did was look into the shower to make sure we using soap and shampoo. then we all line up and march pass the open door were we each got two towels. we all went out into the locker room and dried off. we would all fool around until the teacher yelled stop that fooling around and get dried off and get ready for your next class. we never thought one moment about being naked in front of everyone. i am sure glad i grew up to were it was not a big thing to be naked in front of any one.

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  3. When I was in jr. high, if you were in an after-school sport we'd of course shower before leaving. Once, forgetting something, I went back into the locker room after everyone had left and the custodian was buck naked using the showers that we had just used. I mentioned that to some friends, and they all said they'd seen him using the shower after we were done many times.
    It was no big deal. No funny business and he never came in while we were still there. Can you imagine that taking place today?

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  4. Thanks for the comment and your eagle eye. Which apparently you captured something in this pic that I fail to. I can't take credit for integrating handicapped boys into the locker-room pep talk, I did not notice the boys in wheel chairs and still can't quite make it out, but all good.

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