This reader's comment was on "I was Maybe his Secret Gay Outlet", I felt it should run as a post. E~
I had a regular jacking friend in 8th and 9th grade and we actually talked about whether jacking together meant we were gay. If I remember, we talked about it in two opposite ways.
[1] If he jacks me off but I don't jack him off, I'm not gay.
Or,
[2] If I jack him off but he doesn't jack me off, I'm not gay.
We never resolved it, never figured out if either one was true. At that age neither of those rules really meant anything, however we shot lots of loads together but only rarely touched each other for fear of appearing gay.
As it turned out, I was and he wasn't. But we had no way of figuring it out at 14 and 15, just knew that doing it together with the other dude increased the good feelings.
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