Monday, May 21, 2018

Terms of Engagement in a Car


I was around 10-11 years old when we had a session at camp about sex. This was at a church-related boys camp for guys from many different towns and churches. Although my cabin attended, I was too young to know what the leaders were talking about. The word "sex" was never used, nor any words that might refer to intercourse or private parts of a person's anatomy. I remember one phrase word-for-word: "wrestling matches with a girl in the back seat of a car." It was spoken by one of the men leading the session. This was absolutely puzzling to me. Who would want to wrestle a girl? Why would they do it in the back seat? Whose car would you use?


The whole thing went right over my head. They should have had a sex-ed class first, before attempting their idiotic sex-ethics lesson.

One more thing, if they really wanted to talk about sex ethics, the primary sexual activity going on at that camp was masturbation, which I vaguely knew involved older boys showing each other their dicks.

Anonymous

1 comment:

  1. Scott, you could be describing my own ignorance. A friend of mine also tried to educate me. He was more explicit than your friend. He said "A man puts his peter in a woman's pee-hole and pushes it in and out a lot." That was so unbelievable that I was certain he had made it up.

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