Donovan's Displays

 Imagine you are a grown man with a small to perhaps just under average size flaccid dick or maybe you ARE a grown man with that situation going on. Now, imagine that it's summer-time and you are changing at the pool and some punk, baby faced looking 12-13 year old kid changes right in front of you.  He is dangling and swinging more than you ever could, even if you were a naked trapeze artist for some type of weird circus. I don't know but that was one of my good friends growing up.

  Donovan and I started messing around when we were only 12 that first time was to see how far into puberty we were compared to each other. The first time we were both smooth but even then Donovan seemed bigger than average. He was bigger than me at least so to me he looked huge. It was shortly after that first time that hair began to grow in and our messing around went from look but don't touch to feel free to enjoy yourself.

 Donovan was a bit of an exhibitionist, if you were a grown man with not much going on down there Donovan liked to change clothes in front of you just to see your reaction. He loved urinals that were not shielded and if they were shielded,  he'd stand back but he was not one that would flash unsuspecting people. I think most of the people he let see him were probably voyeurs because he could point them out.

We did sexual things with each other from age 12 all the way to age 20. To tell you the truth, the most intense part of that relationship was from 16 to 20 where we tried EVERYTHING. The only thing we didn't do was anything having to do with shit, but nearly everything else we tried at some point. I say nearly, because maybe there is new stuff we hadn't heard of back then.

 Donovan in addition to being very sexual, being an exhibitionist became an avid pot smoker around the age of 15. He didn't just smoke pot he researched it, he read books about it, he became a pharmacist of sorts because he could recommend different types of pot. Medicinal marijuana was not legal at this time and there were no legal pot shops yet Donovan was a Bud Tender before that was even a thing.

 Donovan graduated a continuation High School at age 20 and a few days after that we were in his house, locked in his bedroom. I had my dick out, he had his out which by the way was still much bigger than mine. Puberty had not equaled things out. He suddenly stopped and told me to pull my pants up, he said he couldn't do this anymore and that he was trying to change his life around.

 Donovan got philosophical on me several times before so I reluctantly pulled my pants up expecting that the next time he got horny he'd call me up. He never did, at least not for anything sexual. I went to his house to watch a movie and was shocked when he did not initiate anything and shot down my advances very quickly.

 Donovan progressively became more and more religious until he stopped talking to me altogether and spent all his time at church. I'm not saying that it's a bad thing the church probably saved him. He left behind a lot of things that could have destroyed his life and he repaired his relationship with his family.

 The next time I would see Donovan we were in our mid 30's. He invited me out on Facebook to show off his new house (this was very recently) and he was/is married, he has 2 young daughters and his wife is pregnant with what they hope will be a son. Well, I had this idea in my head that Donovan and I would have one last encounter. I'm just as attracted to 35 year old Donovan as I was when I first met him but after spending time with him and his family I feel silly to think that was ever a possibility.

 I do wonder though how often he thinks about those 8 years, we spent discovering our bodies and our sexuality. I wonder if he has a son how open will he be to his son's own discovery with other people his own age. Donovan is such a different person now that I can only imagine that all that seems far back in the past to him but to me the memories are fresh and always will be.

The Friend