He wrote: "When the next morning arrived and it was time to get up, I felt too mortified to look at the other boy. People just didn't do that thing together that we had done last night."
When I was a kid, a sleepover early in a budding friendship where we ended-up touching each other and watching each other masturbate, then felt extremely awkward the next morning when we woke up. Even though not a word would be said as to what we had done. It destroyed our friendship, as he just started avoiding me at school right after that.So, these things can be risky. And what we did we both seemed comfortable with at the time. No pressure on the the other. But I guess it was the hormones leading us on.
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I think this is a good discussion topic if anyone else wants to weigh-in.
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So sorry the friendship went south for you. I hope you had other friends that didn't run from physical contact.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was a teen, you definitely didn't want to be found out for ever even suggesting doing things like this let alone actually doing things like this together. It would risk being called or labeled with the f-word or the h-word. Since I ultimately realized I was bisexual and I have lived a straight life, I never considered myself to be 'in the closet', but I suppose I was. I had times as a kid, too, where I definitely hoped nobody ever found out what I had done with this person or that person.
ReplyDeleteI once had an encounter with a friend. It started off fun, then got awkward when he changed his mind. Afterwards things were not the same, we never spoke about it ever again but our great friendship was over. We drifted apart and went our own ways soon after.
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