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-Eric
I'm the original writer, and a lot happened this weekend that was significant. My son was invited to sleep over this past Friday night by a different friend.
When he came home yesterday his demeanor was 180 degrees different than his New Year's Eve sleepover with the other boy. My son was all bubbly yesterday about all the fun things they did, how great this kid is, etc.
So, yesterday afternoon it was just me and him at home, alone, and I mentioned the difference in how much he enjoyed this sleepover versus how he didn't even want to talk about his last sleepover when he got home.So I asked him point blank about last time.
"Did something bad happen between the two of you that night? You can be honest with me, and I promise I won't be upset with anything you might tell me, okay?" We both got quiet, and he looked to me like he was really thinking about something. I then decided to take a big chance, and I admitted to him that on "some sleepovers" when I was his age, boys would "sometimes start playing with their private parts together", and I admitted to him that I sometimes did that too. Then I stayed silent again.
"Dad, he kept trying to touch me. He just wouldn't quit, He kept grabbing me and I had to keep pulling his hand off of me. He showed me that his dick was hard and he kept wanting me to pull my shorts down, too."
Tears now started rolling down my son's cheeks. I was going through a lot trying to decide what to do at that point. I'm realizing that as my son saw it, he was being sexually assaulted by this boy.
I gave him a big hug, helped him dry up his tears, and I thanked him for being so open and honest with me, about something that was probably very difficult for him to talk about. He sniffled and said to me, "You're right."
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So, everyone, I'm at a total loss where to go from here. I don't think this boy did anything at all that unusual for being a 13 year old kid. He wasn't being forceful or 'criminal' in my thinking, just horny and incessant in his desire.
I hope this get's posted, and I hope everyone can help give me thoughts and ideas where to go from here. I obviously want to talk more with my son about all of this.
Anonymous Dad
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